Question by Carilynn Treadway: Is there any way I can make my pothead boyfriend quit?
I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I love him, and I don’t want to lose him, but he smokes pot every day, more than once a day. It seems like he cares more about the pot than he does me, even though he tells me “I love you more than anything, I want to be with you forever” and that stuff. He tells me how it “helps” with all these things, and its not a drug. He is very lazy, and at 31 years old, he still works at his dead end job as a dishwasher, and only ever talks about getting a better job. We want to get married, and have kids, but he always tells me he wants to wait until he has a better job. And I don’t want my kids to be around pot, ever. Is there anything I can do to make him see what it’s doing to him, and to me?    Read more...